I am 34, a biomom of 3 beautiful children, and engaged to a wonderful partner who has 2 beautiful children. This will make each of us bonusparents. :)
We are planning a very family-oriented wedding. We have designed our invitations using photos of each individual family, we are serving 2 separate buffets at the reception. (One for the grown ups and one for the kids.) Each of our children will play a key role in the ceremony. We will each be reciting vows and giving gifts to each other's children. Instead of a unity candle we're having a family sand ceremony. And each of the kids will get to give out 5 invitations of their own. I'm sure there's more, but that's all I can think of right now.
Anyway, I hope you enjoy this space and that everyone here is able to share and get lots of ideas from each other.